You find yourself asking, “How does he do it?” or “What makes him different than me, that makes him so great?” Well, it’s not so much about what that person does or how they do it or even their past and where they come from. The difference between that ultra-successful seemingly “perfect” person and the average is an unstoppable mindset.
All to often people get hung up on notions that if we change certain behaviors like working out more, working harder at our jobs, or being more friendly and compassionate toward others it is going to change our lives. This may be true to some extent, but the fact of the matter is that it is not simply good habits or characteristics that will make you this amazing person.
It all comes down to who we are deep down and what we believe. You can read all the self-help books and magazines about personal improvement, but none of it is going to matter until you change your mindset or mental blueprint. You must assess and reprogram your belief system to that of an ultra-successful person.
A truly successful person has a purpose for everything they do. They are clear about what they want and they take bold action to obtain it. This is built into their mindset.
They don’t think, “well, I would like to do this” or “I really hope this works out for me”. They know exactly what they want, they make bold decisions, and take action demanding the outcome they set out for. If things don’t go as originally planned, they don’t have the average mindset of “well, I guess it just wasn’t meant to be”. They quickly adapt and change their approach and succeed while everyone else looks at them in awe and says, “he’s so lucky” or “he’s so talented”. Luck or talent has little to do with it.
When you know what you want and are absolutely committed to achieving it, then you will be truly unstoppable!